Moving home is incredibly bittersweet. There are some things I'm looking forward to immensely about being back in Kansas but there are even more things I'm going to miss about Mexico.
Things I'm looking forward to:
I cannot wait to have a hot shower whenever I feel like it. I still have trouble remembering to turn on our water heater in time for it to heat up before I need to shower. Also, our water heater is scary. It reminds me of the scary furnace in Brave Little Toaster. Sometimes when it decides to it pauses before turning on (surprise attack really) then spurts out a fire ball when you're not expecting it. Well, I'm always expecting it now because my eyebrows and I had a few too many close calls so now I turn it on and back up really quickly just in case. Also, Lola has recently begun investigating the water heater when it's turned off. I haven't caught her in the act but I'm assuming she sticks her head in there because I'll catch her sitting in the kitchen with her little orange head black, completely covered in ashes. She looks like a chimney sweep cat straight out of Mary Poppins.
Dishwashers. I hate doing dishes by hand. Hate it. Luckily, it's just Octavio & I so there's really not too many dishes. Our water cups have a tendency to stack up however because Lola has decided she thinks it's great fun to stick her dirty little paws in any cup she finds then proceed to drink our water. But I will not miss doing dishes by hand. Ever.
Being busy. Even when I was working I was never really busy. When I worked at CEYCI I felt busier than I was because I was exhausted when I came home, not from teaching but from breaking up fights and chasing children down and pulling children out of the bathroom and back into the classroom. What a mess that school was. At Summer Hills while the students were polite and well behaved I was never busy. I worked only two to three hours a day if that and half the time that was policing recess which basically consisted of standing by the swings and saying "don't run" repeatedly. I'm really looking forward to having a job, having a schedule, and having things to do.
Friends. I miss my friends like crazy. It gets lonely here in Xalapa. It's hard to meet people when you're not in school or working in a job where you interact with people your own age (as opposed to second graders) Octavio's friends from school are great but the only person I've really gotten close with is his bff here, Soco. So I'll add him to the list of things/people I'm going to miss about Mexico. I miss the easy conversations and silly laughs I have with my friends. So really, friends should probably be at the top of this list if I was doing it in order from most to least excited instead of the order I think of things.
My family & pets. Lola is wonderful. Octavio thinks I baby her too much but we have spent an exorbitant amount of time together these past months. Plus, I got her when she was only 5 months old so I trained her to like to cuddle as much as I do. But I still miss my puppies and cats at home. Especially sweet Cozmo who had to get her teeth pulled last month and is apparently walking even slower than ever now. And even though I skype with my family a lot it's not the same as being there.
Food. I miss the choices of food more than the food really. The choice of "do I want Italian, pizza, Mexican, hamburgers, sushi...what do I feel like?"
What I'll miss:
This guy obviously.
After four years of having to do the long distance thing it's been nice to just be able to be together. I've gotten used to seeing him every day and it's going to be rough to switch back to only phone calls, emails, texts, and skype. Plus, he makes really good food. I've gotten used to that also!
These girls.
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| how can you not love this little face? She's going to start walking any minute now & I'm going to miss it! |
| These little chatterboxes probably taught me more Spanish than anyone & I'm going to miss hearing them argue with each other & crack me up with their little kid sayings! |
Empanadas. I just love empanadas and there's just no good empanadas in Kansas.
Mainly, I'll miss the people. If I could just scoop them all up and take them to Kansas with me then I'd be a happy, happy girl. But it doesn't work that way.
